My Thoughts of Victory

I never considered divorce with my husband because having a broken family was a wound that hardly heals, but if there is one thing I am sure about men, that is, they don’t deserve anything from you anymore when they have destroyed something they vowed to protect. Again, I never considered divorce with my husband, but what was worse than leaving someone was staying with no amount of love you could give. It was a solid decision to cut the ties of our hearts and leaving, I think, was the best way to stand for it.

So here I am, Victoria Miner of Russia, whose name is rather ironic for me. With love, I was a miner who dug something precious, but lost it afterwards and that surely meant that I was not a victor.

However, it doesn’t mean that I am a loser. It was too much to put meanings on my name from the terrible things that happened to you. If you have cut the ties and left, the next thing to do is forgive. Right now I am already happy after all that happened and besides, this is the way things should be.

I am as busy as a bee on my managerial position and despite my tight schedule, I try to get a life by attending parties and go for social drinking. It allows to me to widen my network of people that it helps me to know new things and to explore the world. Travelling is really my interest.

Unlike other women who were wallowing in depression, I have grown stronger from the divorce. I don’t open it to other people myself, but I don’t deny it when they asked me. Actually, I keep hearing from my colleagues that surprisingly, I am very open-minded, energetic, creative, and sociable woman. They even find my sense of humor exceptional.

At the age of 28, getting a new life is not too late. You deserve to be happy and happiness is a choice that doesn't expire. To enjoy life we need to do things that we like or even things that we don’t know. As for me, I have tried things like snorkeling and even online dating! By the way, I guess online dating is something new and exciting to meet different types of guys. This is a great entertainment for people who have no time for themselves because of piled tasks. Honestly, the site I am in which is internationally known is giving me good vibes and of course lighting a fire that was killed by my ex husband. They made me appreciate myself, and I know now that I am someone’s victory, that I am a very precious stone who must be mined by someone worthy. This time I must be won.

To the guys in there, thank you for making women feel special. For the guys out there, there are so many womenwaiting for you at the site, and that includes me.