Fighting the Loneliness

When you have a job that demands so much of your time, you usually lose time for yourself and forget how to have fun. Some just deal with the stress by eating a lot and by going to a short trip on their day off. Others are pushing themselves deeper to the tasks they are doing. Where is life?

By the way, I am Jeanne Gapanovich, 27 years old from Russia. For me, those are not the only available things to get rid of stress and sometimes you just have to look for new angles in order to be entertained. In my case I made use of technology; I am very active in social media such as instagram and twitter. I don’t have a Facebook account because I still doubt its security but there is a dating site that I am enjoying to be a part of. The privacy is guaranteed protected, and I have been spending a good deal of beautiful moments there.

Actually, my boyfriend and I met there. I was just curious about this site because my friends talked about it a lot and among many interesting guys I chatted with, he was the one who singled out. We spent a period of happiness whenever we were talking and sometimes loneliness because no matter how we wanted to hug or kiss each other, we just couldn’t. There were also those times that we would have small argument because of miscommunication but would fix things up before we would go to bed.

When I was deeply attached to him, I began to have these worries that this relationship would not last but I tried to forget all my worries because the most important thing for me is to continue talking to him. Then one day when I reached home stressed out from work, he told me that he would not chat to me again. I was exhausted, confused, and mad – I really don’t know what to feel. Is he breaking up with me?

However, he still chat me and revealed that soon we would not talk this way again because he would be coming to Russia. I really jumped out of the sofa because of the happiness I couldn’t contain. It was a dream came true for a woman whose time was almost spent on banking and finance. I never expected that with this profile I would find the man I call now as my fiancé.

Anastasia, You’re Not-So-Ordinary Woman

Hello, guys around the world. I am Anastasia Kim, not yet attached to anyone and I am not-so-ordinary-woman. I come from the largest country of the world, Russia, living independently as an office staff in a financial company. I have soft, grey eyes and wavy, brown hair; and whenever I take a walk downtown many people used to ask me if I was a model. They say that I am stunning and sexy; I am 5 feet 9 inches tall and weighing 130 pounds – which is just normal – and my body’s vital statistics is 38-25-38.

Whether you believe it or not, I am not a model. Although I have this inclination to be a bit vain and creative when it comes to outfits, it is just part of building a good image that is important in one’s work and socialization. Besides, it is natural for a woman to look after their looks.

Although I am not into posing like models, I really like taking selfies and post them on social media. I am quite picky with the backgrounds, position of things and things like those which sometimes my friends find annoying. It is also fun to take pictures with your friends as it helps to preserve happy memories together. When I was talking about these things in the online community, many of the men just acted like it is normal, which is true. However, one guy caught my interest.

He was so absorbed with every story I told him, from the most nonsense gossip to the most sensible opinion. He even said that he could relate to me being so conscious with the backgrounds, blocking, and such things when taking a picture because he is actually a photographer in his country. We talked more until we fell for each other. We even dreamt of having our own studio and we can work on a business together.

I felt that arts brought us together with the help of online dating. Even though we are miles apart it feels like we are both sitting on a sofa on Sunday afternoon. We are not capable of meeting each other face to face for now, but soon the moment our eyes cross each other, we won’t make things longer. Actually, we are unofficially engaged. What our future will be is something you must watch out for in my profile.

My Thoughts of Victory

I never considered divorce with my husband because having a broken family was a wound that hardly heals, but if there is one thing I am sure about men, that is, they don’t deserve anything from you anymore when they have destroyed something they vowed to protect. Again, I never considered divorce with my husband, but what was worse than leaving someone was staying with no amount of love you could give. It was a solid decision to cut the ties of our hearts and leaving, I think, was the best way to stand for it.

So here I am, Victoria Miner of Russia, whose name is rather ironic for me. With love, I was a miner who dug something precious, but lost it afterwards and that surely meant that I was not a victor.

However, it doesn’t mean that I am a loser. It was too much to put meanings on my name from the terrible things that happened to you. If you have cut the ties and left, the next thing to do is forgive. Right now I am already happy after all that happened and besides, this is the way things should be.

I am as busy as a bee on my managerial position and despite my tight schedule, I try to get a life by attending parties and go for social drinking. It allows to me to widen my network of people that it helps me to know new things and to explore the world. Travelling is really my interest.

Unlike other women who were wallowing in depression, I have grown stronger from the divorce. I don’t open it to other people myself, but I don’t deny it when they asked me. Actually, I keep hearing from my colleagues that surprisingly, I am very open-minded, energetic, creative, and sociable woman. They even find my sense of humor exceptional.

At the age of 28, getting a new life is not too late. You deserve to be happy and happiness is a choice that doesn't expire. To enjoy life we need to do things that we like or even things that we don’t know. As for me, I have tried things like snorkeling and even online dating! By the way, I guess online dating is something new and exciting to meet different types of guys. This is a great entertainment for people who have no time for themselves because of piled tasks. Honestly, the site I am in which is internationally known is giving me good vibes and of course lighting a fire that was killed by my ex husband. They made me appreciate myself, and I know now that I am someone’s victory, that I am a very precious stone who must be mined by someone worthy. This time I must be won.

To the guys in there, thank you for making women feel special. For the guys out there, there are so many womenwaiting for you at the site, and that includes me.

It’s Not about Money After All

Have you ever sung your heart out with Jessie Jane with the lines: it's not about the money, money, money; we don't need your money, money, money? Singing your heart out with the lyrics and baltering with its loud lively beats, you surely made your point about forgetting price tags and that money cannot buy us happiness.

My name is Alisa Khamidullin and although, I have to admit, I am also one of those who try to belt this song loved by everybody but without conviction. I am from Russia, in late 20’s, and a financial manager. Because of my profession, I think I have seen enough things that money can buy us happiness. With wealth you can live at your leisure and pleasure and according to well-to-do people I have interviewed said that they feel happy if they spend their money to others. Thus, my mind is set that you need to have a lot of money to be happy and to help other people to be happier.

So I removed all poetic and impractical perspective in my life in order to be happy and everything went well at first. It was when I fell in love and got broken that I realized price tags don’t really matter.

So I dream on real love and believe that here on this site I can find my soul mate. When it comes to dream, I believe in the motto: “Don’t stop dreaming, never stop believing!” I am very hopeful that one day the right man will click my profile and give me the endless happiness that I misinterpreted coming from money. Let us make love win.

First of All, Friendship

What I learned in my life is that, if there is anyone worth keeping that is your family. I found out that some of my friends were saying things against me behind my back, and to my horrible surprise my boyfriend believed it. It sounds bitter but it is natural that I shut off myself from them and I decided not to trust people again.

I was so pissed at the betrayal that happened but I was still glad it happened because I discovered who are true to me and who are not. I also realized how unfaithful my boyfriend was, or I should say my ex.

The only comfort I have found was my mother because I am not that party girl who resorts to booze and smokes in dealing with problems. Later, I got myself busy over dating sites.

Honestly, I never thought of engaging myself in this kind of community. There are hearsay's that dating sites only contain desperate men who want to get laid and although I met some men who were really that lustful, most of them were nice and humorous.

If Ira Danilina – that is me – is a bitch to the eyes of my seeming friends, she is described by my male friends I talked with online as a very romantic and sweet woman from Russia. They said that I am caring and understanding, but quite talkative which is not on a negative way. Sometimes there are things that makes me moody but I am still bubbly and, most important of all, genuine.

The guys appreciate that I like music, reading, sport, tennis, badminton and going to the cinema. They are appreciating almost everything I say. This can be a deception, or just flattery to get my heart, but no; the betrayal I experienced from my so-called friends and my ex was painful enough and had taught to be more careful next time. Actually, I can say that my online friends are way nicer and better than those I have been for years.

By the way, I am a 25-year old chef and I try to be the best in every dish that I do. I enjoy challenges; however, I like when someone supports my challenge even when I have self-doubt. This is why friends are very important to me because they are usually the people who help me to stand still.

Dating sites are known as a place of finding a partner in life but I never thought that a ‘partner’ did not mean for romantic involvement. Like I always say, friendship is the best form of relationship, but being in this kind of online community, I might find someone who will make me believe in love again and prove me forever is true. Who knows?

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Moscow Love, Izzya Rudakovskih

Hi. I am Izzya Rudakovskih, 31 years old. I am Russian living in Moscow. One odd thing about me is that even though I am too old for fairy tales I still believe in happily ever after. It sounds silly but who does not want it? I often dream that grand day when you walk, arm in arm with my father, through that aisle wearing a stunning gown while at the end of the carpet waiting is the man who will be with me making vows of union till the end of time.

I know every woman dream that wedding just as I do but we all know that it is a serious thing. You don’t hurry to get married because there are a lot of things to consider or else, you get your heart broken. Of course, the very first thing is simply having the right man you will spend forever with and I have been looking for him so long.

I was married already once and I thought that I had the life dreamed by every woman. I thought I would wake up finding my husband cooking a good breakfast for me, and when I would sleep he was beside me as exchange good night. It was well at first but later, it was worse than one’s nightmare. It pains to remember the things he did and he didn't to me, and I cannot afford to tell each detail because they remind me how I was hurt. I could describe it that our marriage is a candle – very brief. Although I never wanted it, I found it the best resort and so we divorced.

Like I have said, I believe in fairy tales so I am partial to a man who is strong, romantic and loyal. I also possess those qualities and so having a man equal to me is heaven-made kind of feeling. To complete that princely character, he must have a good heart.A woman can easily tell whether a man has a good heart or not, and that he will love her and his family. My friends say, and I quite agree, that it is hard to find one, but I know it is not impossible.Like I always say, I am willing to travel across any sea to find that one man I belong.

I am quiet, stable, introspective and honest. I do not smoke nor drink. I am what others say of being an ideal woman: ‘like a chef in the kitchen, a lady in society, and loving in bed’.Also, the glamour and femininity are natural to me.My life is happy now, but I will be happier if I have found that missing part which is the sharing of love with a lifetime partner. To the man who is for me, if you are reading this now, why don’t you come and let’s swim together?

So what are you waiting for? For us to be able to start something, catch me up in this website through this link.